How to defend your principles when almost everyone around you against them? It’s not easy to be answered. However, I believe that we must have strong determination in defending it. I always consider myself as different and special in my own very way. I must say that I’m really firm with my principles and beliefs until some people say I’m stubborn. But, of course, I don’t care about that. That’s me! I don’t have to change it. If people want to like me, let it because of who I am. I just want people to accept me as the way I am, shares what I have and doesn’t try to change me.
So, what are my principles? Among them is I won’t date a guy unless I want to marry him. I’ll only go out with a guy with the view of marriage. That’ll only happen when I’m ready to get married. I’m not like my friends who have boyfriend or girlfriend, got separated and find another one. I believe in true love and I absolutely against puppy love. To me, God has destined us to be with someone. Sooner or later, He will meet us up. So, what’s the point of being in love for a short while, got separated and then, find another boyfriend or girlfriend?
If it is just because everyone has partner and I must have one, then, it’s so silly. Having a partner is not for fun! It means giving commitment and being responsible for that person. You share what you’ve, understand, respect, support and of course, love each other. Therefore, I believe that we must choose our partner carefully. We also must set a certain standard for him or her. We must know what kind of person who suits us. We cannot just choose anybody. As the eldest, it makes my responsibility grows larger because my partner will not only be my husband but he’ll be a big brother to 7 of my little brothers and sisters. Thus, I can’t just choose anybody.
However, most of my friends don’t understand that. Some of them even said I’m heartless just because I never have boyfriend. Even my former roommate said, aren’t you worried you’ll get married at the old age and no one wants you? Hello! I’m only 22! I’ve long time to find someone. Besides, God has destined us with somebody even before we were born. So, why should we worry about such thing? He’ll meet us up in an unexpected way and that’s the beautiful destiny for us. Until that destiny comes to me, I’ll stick to my principle and wait for him. I believe that he’s somewhere out there waiting for me as I’m waiting for him.^^
2 comments:
Interesting post. I absolutely agree 107%. We are destined with that special someone since we were born. I was surprised to find out that I am not the only one who is having this rare principle. Yeah, people nowadays follow what they see without even thinking. Evidence that human being uses only small part of their brain to think. Since everyone is doing it, they take it as a norm. Happy to see one rare survivor here. May Allah destined you with someone who will guide you to Paradise.
Thank you so much for your comment.I was also surprised to find out that i've a companion in this matter.May Allah destine you with someone who will guide you Paradise as well.
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